The week’s memory work is Philippians 2:12-13, Recite the two verses as best as you can by memory.

There is a misperception in the North American Christian mindset that growth occurs when people of faith ignore their feelings. However, without intention to the underlying whys of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, Christ-followers will continue to live from places of defeat. Emotions shape behavior, whether Christians want them to or not.

Change requires honesty and vulnerability. Experience requires us to admit what is going on inside of us. Experience entails being real about our brokenness, disappointments, and limitations. If we feel threatened by being open and honest with God, trusted mentors, and friends, we will stop the process of change.

As we are honest with God, He meets us where we are. He hears our prayers and helps us see how change is possible in Him. We walk with Him in love, asking Him how change will best occur in us. He knows us better than we know ourselves.

Why is vulnerability necessary in the experience of change?

When we take the step of vulnerability, we become more self-aware. Self-awareness is a crucial part of change. We identify our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors with God. We accurately articulate our place in the journey without condemnation and shame. Romans 8:1 says, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

Self-reflection with God helps us receive His grace, which is essential when applying God’s wisdom and spiritual truth to our life. John 1:14 “And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.”

Self-reflection with God also helps us look at ourselves with honesty. We experience the internal work of the Spirit, helping us understand our blind spots. We see with God’s eyes the places He is at work.

In the same respect, Jesus reminds us of the importance of focusing on the work He is about in our life rather than focusing on the change we believe needs to happen in others.

Luke 6:41-43

Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother’s eye.

How does self-reflection protect us from becoming prideful in the journey? Spend some time in prayer and self-reflection with God.